hey so I have a problem. i really like this guy and he is super sweet and understanding but he is Emo. Like well only sortof. He dresses in like black and weird stuff and my parents would not approve of him but we both really like each other and we a really good friends. We talk all the time but we dont know if we should get in a relationship. Should we or not? What should I do?
Archive for August, 2007
iv had alcohol befor and i really liked it, then i had it a few more times and liked it even more..it helps me excape from my home life. I got caught by my parents for drinking without their permission and i got into a lot of trouble…but i cant shake the fact that i might be atticted. can you help me set myself straight?? am i? or aint i? thx
If there are any guys who want an idea of the perfect end of summer date, i have a supurb solution! One boy did this for me and i think i should pass it on. He met me on the boardwalk and we walked for ever, just talking about evrything about each other. Then, we went out to a cute litttle sushi place (he paid) and then we walked across the beach and sat and watched the sun set together…..it was the best night of my life! So i hope your taking notes! lol ~good luck!
its me again, and since the last post i broke up w/ my boyfriend, gotten back in control of my life, was looking forward to the beggining of school, and evrything seemed to be balanced. Then my old bf wanted to know (4 the 3rd time) why i broke up w/ him. I told him that this book changed my life and that i realized who i wanted to be. I said that some people change and realize their values, and thats what happened to me. Then he said….”ok, well see you at school and i look forward to meeting your new boy toy, hav a fun life”. Ugh! it just makes me soo mad!! why did he do this? The worst part is that now i feel like a slut, and that mabi evrybody else thinks i use guys too! but i dont! and now i totally feel like crap! Is he right?? or did i do the right thing?? help!
This is an amazing site. I have learned a great deal from this site and reading your blogs. I work with a group who teach young women how to get their lives back on track after having gone down the wrong road.
These women usually have children and do not know how to talk with them. Together we are learning here. Thanks to all, those who put this together and the kids who are responding.
ok, so my dad is an alchoholic, and it really sucks, he doesn’t really get drunk, but he’s always drinking at night, my parents are divorced, and i mostly only go to his house on the weekends, but it always smells horrible and hes never really “with it” when he’s home, it has been getting a little better, and he is going to aa now, but he still keeps the beer around the house, which disgusts me to see and smell the empty beer cans, but the thing that really gets me is that my brother and sister go to parties and drink and stuff, my sister just now turned 21, so now she can legally drink but i know she drank before her 21st birthday, as a lot of high schoolers do, i never drink, even if i’m at a party that has beer and stuff at it, growing up with an alcoholic dad who has never been very dependable has shown me what beer and alcohol can do to you, even if you don’t become an alcoholic, plus i don’t wanna take the chance of becoming an alcoholic and screwing up my life and the lives of the people around me, like my dad tends to screw up his life and the rest of the family’s lives
Alright, so this is a way to get your “lucky number” that i learned when I was at the HOBY world leadership congress during my community service project when we were hanging out during our break
first, you take the age when you first started dating
then, you add those two numbers together
third, you multiply by 9
then you add those numbers together and add 21
last, you subtract the number of people you’ve made out with, and you should have your number
When is it apropriate to start dating? I will be 15 in 1 week and feel like I want to date NOW! My parents say’ ” No Way! ” and, ” When I was in highschool I looked up to those who did not date until they were 16 and they also ended up with better guys then I ever did.” I agree with them in a sense but Its just there is this guy I like he is only a few months older than me and I like him more than words can express. HELP ME PLZ!
This is my first time on this thing but i was wondering if anybody could give me some addvice. You see, i have been seeing this boy. He lives back home in Vancouver just like me, we have been on a couple of dates and i really like him. The only bad thing is that im not allowed to date for another month(and he said he would wait) but i kno that all the people at school disaprove. I kno that i shouldnt care what they think but i need help! Now, im at risk of loseing this great guy… To make matters worse - i lied that i was seeing him to my friends. I dont kno whats wrong with me! Im in deep and i need help!!!
scared of loseing something great,