Confidence
There’s something I just don’t understand. It’s those confident people who can say what’s on their mind and get up in front of a crowd and sing. I know I shouldn’t care about what others think to a point, but I don’t feel I can face my fears because I lack social skills. I’m not a fun, interesting, or smart person. I try to be, but I am just so plain and unhappy everyday at school. People don’t know it though. I understand I shouldn’t be down on myself but it’s hard to lie to yourself for so long. Can anyone relate or help?
December 24th, 2008 at 10:12 pm
Hi, I hope you have been able to find some advice. I don’t belive that you aren’t smart, fun or an interesting person. I think that everyone is a smart, fun, and iteresting person in their own way. The world will tell you that you are not, they tell me that I’m not. I thought I didn’t have any talents. I not very good at just one thing, but I just lately have had some really good friends tell me my talents and I noticed that I do have talents. I am good at many things and not just one particular thing. So I don’t belive what you are saying and I don’t want you to either. I bet you are a great person and a wonderful friend. And I hope you will too. Just don’t let the world tell you who you are, but let you dicide who you are and who you will be. Again I hope you will belive in yourself, like I belive in you that you are great and can accomplish great things. Never stop beliving that. If you need anymore help you can email me at jellabean@myway.com
December 28th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
You aren’t lying to yourself, you are creating a false imagine about yourself. Fyears and years I talked myself down and told myself I was a horrible person. I was constantly focused on the negative and it got to the point where I wasn’t even taking care of myself anymore. I weigh around 102 pounds and I told myself I was fat. For my height, that is a healthy weight(Yes I am short! haha). Listen… you may not have something other kids have, but you are your own individual, beautiful person. What makes humanity so beautiful is that everyone is unique in their own way. Tell yourself positive things rather than the negative and you can start to build your condidence. You are your own interesting person. Don’t think differently.
March 18th, 2009 at 4:28 am
everyone has something special in him/her.. i’ve also been like that and [still am].. it’s coz perople put me down.. but.. if no one’s putting you down.. be jolly.. try to be confident in yourself.. you gotta be proud coz you’re a child of GOD.. and he created you and he also LOVES you.. don’t be hard on yourself.. look on your good side.. on the bright side.. on the positive side.. and you’d feel good about yourself..
May 10th, 2010 at 9:52 am
Reasons why people are confident is mainly because they have learned not to take life so seriously. Once you do this, it is easy to not worry about what people think. They have hobbies where they can meet people who have similar interests and are able to relate to those people for that reason. Political views and other opinions are not in the mix. When I go to car shows, it’s easy to talk to people that I normally would not, because we are interested in the subject at hand. I can share my ideas and thoughts and nobody looks down on me. I apply this in the real world and it helps. The people that care or look down on an idea usually have other problems and it’s easy to shrug them off. If you feel that you lack confidence, a good way to overcome this is to tap into your hobbies and meet people who share similar tastes. I have made multiple friends and have gained control over my emotions by doing this.
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