Friends
at the beginning of the school year i had a ton of friends and hung out with a group of kids almost every day Then around December they stopped calling to hang out and i don’t know why. what should i do?
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January 1st, 2009 at 1:36 am
Hi. I think that the best thing for you to do is to approach the group. Tell them how youve been feeling about their attitude about you and see what they say. If they just avoid you again, ask them again and if they still ignore you just walk away because people who avoid you and are acting like they have no manners arent any good for you so you should strive and look for another group of people to hang out with who appreciate who you are. I dont know if this will help but theres only one way to find out.
18e9February 21st, 2009 at 8:31 pm
If you did not succeed by asking them (your previously nice friends) politely, try asking other groups of friends about “your group”. Find out from other people about them, make observations, and you’ll get tired eventually. Go find new friends, you’ll never know, they might be a million times better than your former leave-us-alone “friends”.
February 22nd, 2009 at 1:58 pm
yes, you should approach them and know what they are concerned about, dont go behind there backs to find out information ask them whats wrong maybe its just a small thing that just built up. But if they dont respond, ignore you or just doing something very unfriend like go get new friends you deserve better.
July 5th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
Suggest that you all hang out! People get busy, it happens. I know if a certain friend of mine doesn’t plan things then they generally don’t happen even though everyone wants to hang out. Pick a fun activity and ask everyone to go do it with you some weekend.
July 10th, 2009 at 12:19 pm
I used to feel the same way. I always wondered “why arnt they calling me” but then i realized…The phone works both ways!” call them suggest you get a group together to see a movie or just have a fun little get-together! And if thet doesnt work…find some new people! There are plenty of other people that would love to be ur friend you just have to branch out and find them :]
August 31st, 2009 at 10:17 am
i think u should find new friends
October 31st, 2009 at 7:27 am
Once in a while that just happens. It’s happening to me also. They’re just caught up in their own life. You think that your friend has changed but both of y’all had changed. It’s just growing up the way I solved it is I made new friends but still be as friendly to them as nothing have changed.
October 31st, 2009 at 7:28 am
And if you hang out with them and approach them take your time if your not ready don’t do it. And it feels weird when you try to be in the conversation and they leave you out and after you left talk behing your back.
November 5th, 2009 at 10:40 am
Ok first of all they r jerks. If they dumped you, dont go looking back for them. It will seem like u r desperate. Move on find new freinds. freinds that appreciate you.
November 25th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
they dont seem to be real friends to me. find someone who would never dump you and would always be there 4 u
February 25th, 2010 at 3:55 pm
I think you must be feeling somewhat leftout. That happened to me when I was in school, and my ex-friends still hate me. But I recommend to move on.
March 19th, 2013 at 6:11 am
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